Where Do I Go From Here?

Dear Diary,

It’s midnight as I write this and I’m snacking on chocolate M&M’s. Today has been a mixed day to be honest. Two days ago I made a decision to tidy up my bedroom and start putting an effort into my appearance/cleanliness/etc – basically I am trying to get out of my cycle of depression.

It has been going mostly well, even though a hotdog I was eating from the garage had a hair in it, causing me to freak out. My health is better – although I won’t be walking to the shops any time soon as I still get tired very easily.

However the doctor still hasn’t called me to tell me what I should be doing now. I’m a lot better sure, but what’s the reason for my previous ill-health and how do I stop it from happening again? I fear that because I’m better than I was that these questions will go unanswered for a while.

I haven’t been to a driving lesson in ages due to my ill-health and feel uncomfortable resuming them until I can guarentee that this will not happen again. I’m terrified about university next year, I’m terrified about what I’m supposed to do with myself for the next few months and I feel very lost.

When I wake up tired in the morning and have nothing planned for the day (especially when other people are also asleep) I struggle to find the urgency to get up. When I know I’m going shopping for food with my Mum, visiting my grandparents or going out to breakfast I have a purpose but most days I just feel like there is nothing to look forward to.

This is an obvious problem as one cannot do something exciting every single day and chores seem non-urgent enough to not get myself out of bed at a quick pace.

Being miserable and depressed is a lot easier than trying to help yourself. Helping yourself get out of a misery pattern requires facing all the things that you want to avoid and actively trying to find solutions to your problems and negative feelings which is tiring and scary.

A Great Day Until I Found Gristle In A Chicken McNugget

TW: Don’t read if you have anxiety surrounding food and it’s texture.

Dear Diary,

I had a great day at work today. It was genuinely really enjoyable and happy and I was in a fantastic mood until I went to McDonald’s afterwards to get some food.

I ordered what I’ve been ordering for ages: coke, fries and 9 McNuggets and things were going great. I was munching on them on the drive back until suddenly I felt something in my McNugget. It was hard and tough and I knew almost immediately what it was. I convinced myself that it was something else until I took another bite and found an even bigger bit of gristle.

Spitting it out into my takeaway bag I finished my meal with a deeply uncomfortable feeling in my stomach.

The thought of the gristle caused me to panic. Most people get upset when they find something less than desirable in their food but call it autism, OCD or something else, I was really upset.

So upset, that I feel like I can’t go to McDonald’s ever again because the thought of another McNugget having gristle in it is really upsetting for me.

What I need to do is sleep and not obsess about gristle or McNuggets and right now that’s what I’m going to do – sleep and have a lie in.

Stay safe.

-Medusa