It’s midnight as I write this and I’m snacking on chocolate M&M’s. Today has been a mixed day to be honest. Two days ago I made a decision to tidy up my bedroom and start putting an effort into my appearance/cleanliness/etc – basically I am trying to get out of my cycle of depression.
It has been going mostly well, even though a hotdog I was eating from the garage had a hair in it, causing me to freak out. My health is better – although I won’t be walking to the shops any time soon as I still get tired very easily.
However the doctor still hasn’t called me to tell me what I should be doing now. I’m a lot better sure, but what’s the reason for my previous ill-health and how do I stop it from happening again? I fear that because I’m better than I was that these questions will go unanswered for a while.
I haven’t been to a driving lesson in ages due to my ill-health and feel uncomfortable resuming them until I can guarentee that this will not happen again. I’m terrified about university next year, I’m terrified about what I’m supposed to do with myself for the next few months and I feel very lost.
When I wake up tired in the morning and have nothing planned for the day (especially when other people are also asleep) I struggle to find the urgency to get up. When I know I’m going shopping for food with my Mum, visiting my grandparents or going out to breakfast I have a purpose but most days I just feel like there is nothing to look forward to.
This is an obvious problem as one cannot do something exciting every single day and chores seem non-urgent enough to not get myself out of bed at a quick pace.
Being miserable and depressed is a lot easier than trying to help yourself. Helping yourself get out of a misery pattern requires facing all the things that you want to avoid and actively trying to find solutions to your problems and negative feelings which is tiring and scary.